Self-control is a great thing to master. However -- We may sometimes get confused by what we need or want to defend. Standing-firm and defending ourselves is very necessary, for self-esteem and self-protectiveness.
Defending others, is also a great thing. To put someone in their place when we believe that they are wrong, generally is a good thing. Unless, we are (actually) wrong, and the core-motive for putting them in their place is about criticising them; and a twisted way of pointing fingers at them, instead of remaining blinded to our own faults -- all for the sake of compensating for our own lack of self control.
How many people do you believe, correct and criticise, or blame-shift, all for the sake of compensating for their own mistakes and weak points? (It's all about being human; is it not?)
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