Could You Celebrate an Affair?

Affairs happen. Although, they are certainly, not typically a welcomed situation for the one who is betrayed (unless, he or she has no problem with infedility), or not always a picnic for the individual who is having the affair -- sometimes, having an affair and conveniently getting caught, is a convenient excuse for a break up of a commited relationship. It may be easier, for both parties of the committed relationship, rather than to lay the cards out on the table, so to speak. Perhaps, a relief (if you will) for someone whoose heart has not been in the committed relationship, for some time; and that could apply to both parties.

Could you, outwardly celebrate an affair of your partner? Or, is that not even thinkable?

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A Perspective About Reading Body-Language -- It's Something That is Developed Naturally

Non-verbal body-language is something that we are not necessarily taught about early-on in school. We don't take classes, to discern micro-expressions, or non-verbal everyday body-language-speak, (if you will); for, it is all a natural process, which we may instinctively and intuitively know how to read, by empathy and logic.

By putting ourselves in the place of the one whom we are reading, we get where they are coming from and feeling, by interpretation of significant emotions and jestures. We can guage by logic, what is going on with them.

Emotional intelligence and logic-smarts, may be key and significant in reading people, as well as, the instinct and intuition to help discern in non-verbal body-language communication.

What are your thoughts, about reading people and body-language?

A Perspective About Cat Gazes and Dog Stares

For cat-lovers, there may not be anything more delightful, mysterious, and mesmerizing, than the gaze of a cat. For, a cat might not be deemed as the proverbial "man's best friend" -- however, to be in the presence of a cat (for some individuals), can be quite an honor and a very enjoyable experience, especially, if the cat gazes at an individual, in an attentive and mysterious way.

For cat-lovers, the staring of a cat is a pleasurable experience. However, if one feels intimidated by long gazes by any creature -- there may not be delight or affection felt for a gazing cat, by someone who views it as intimidating. Instead, the individual may feel uncomfortable and not be fond of the affectionate and mysterious feline creature, who may have no clue, that the reason why an individual is demonstrating a lack of fondness and affection for the feline, is because of the uncomfortable feeling that he or she gets, because of a gazeful connection, the cat may be trying to establish with the individual. 

Lucky for cats, there are cat-lovers out there who know that the beauty and mystery of cats, is exemplified with their long and deep gazes.

The ironic part is that when a dog looks at an individual, who may get intimidated by a cat's gaze -- the dog's stare, may be very welcomed and deemed by the individual, as being friendly. (Go figure... Right?) 

Are you a cat-person, or a dog-lover? And can you relate to the above perspective?